Dignified:       The Tower card can be seen as both positive and negative depending on one's frame of mind.  The Tower is in a state of destruction but it was never built from a solid foundation anyway.  The Tower was destined to fall.  The Tower represents the destruction of a world built on illusion and false pretenses.  Many relationships crumble to the force that is the Tower card because unrealistic hopes and dreams were built upon their relationship without proper support.  Although the Tower represents the crumbling of ones hopes and dreams, it also brings the chance for proper renewal upon a stronger foundation built from experience and a more concrete reality.  The Tower suggests an inevitable fall that cannot be avoided.  All one can do is start planning for the new and hopefully build again avoiding the mistakes of the past.

Ill-Dignified:     Reversed this card represents the continual building of false pretenses and succumbing to ones own self illusions.  The Tower reversed suggests unrealistic goals and dreams, and tricking oneself into believing that nothing is wrong and that no change is necessary.