Dignified:       The Lovers card represents that a choice is coming up in the realm of relationships, a choice which will have a lasting impact on the relationship at hand.  This may come as a proposal of marriage or simply the choice to continue or dissolve a relationship.  The Lovers brings a reminder that should one not take control of his or her choices, one will be forced upon them by the wheel of destiny.  The Lovers also represents sacrifice and that which is given up when a decision is finally made.  Should one choose marriage and commitment, the freedom and playfulness of a single lifestyle is to be given up.  Should one remain a bachelor then the security of a married lifestyle may have to be let go.  Overall, what the Lovers card represents is that a choice is at hand and one that must be made with much care and consideration for there are always sacrifices to every decision.

Ill-Dignified:     In a reversed position the Lovers represents thoughtlessness in handling ones relationships with others and a lack of care when making crucial decisions regarding loved ones.  Reversed the Lovers depicts being indecisive and leaving your freedom of choice up to chance.